农村亲子关系的问题及其调适——以代沟理论为视角

亲予关系联系的是年龄、心理、思想观念、行为方式、成长环境、教育背景、生活环境、生活阅历都非常不相同的两代人，它是家庭人际关系的核心内容之一。亲子关系不同于夫妻关系，其研究有独特的视角。在代沟理论下考察农村亲子关系的现状及存在的问题，寻找调适途径，以积极的交流和沟通方式以及尊重和宽容的心态改变家庭教养方式，促进亲代的继续社会化，是消除代际对立、建立和谐亲子关系的有效方法。

The Problems and Adjustments of Rural Parenthood

Parenthood, which is one of the core content of interpersonal relationship in the family, is connecting two quite different generations in terms of age, psychology, concepts, behavior, growing surroundings, education background, living surroundings, and experiences in life. Parenthood is different from the relationship between husband and wife and it should be studied with a unique view. Based on the theory of generation gap, we should study the current situation of rural parenthood and find out the problems so as to find suitable solutions. With respect and tolerance, we should, through active communicative methods, change the way of family education and promote parents＇ continuous socialization, which is an effective way to remove opposition between generations and to form harmonious parenthood.